Hello to all of you.
Thanks for all the suggestions.
Kobe has become so much better in the car.Yay! On a scale of 1-10-about an 8.
Worked hard -taking him everywhere after a short walk then different places -some more fun then others and some walking.
He still does not like the movement of the car.
Stands the whole time and some pacing but not carrying on as he was.
Its not long trips to where we go. A half hour at most. The radio can play now.
He did get more excited when he saw the river cause thats close to granddads-where he can run and visit with neighbors dogs.
What worked was exercise and taking some of his stuff- like a blanket from home.
Took 2 of his toys -- I pack a bag (got a free purina bag from vet) with bottled water and his food along with anything I think we may need.
He kept bopping me in the back of the head with squeaky toy

so I took away and just left him his kong bone with frozen water inside.
He also has a flatter nose so once in awhile he would prod me with that or drape his head over my shoulder-(that was new)
He can't get in front seat and he doesn't try to. Every once in awhile I would look at him and his eyes would widen -like "are we there yet?'

well,you had to be there.
We are having a better time of it thks to your ideas. No one was helping me at home. I have been looking all around the forum and slowly learning how to use it.